Friday, February 19, 2010

Relationships..A reason, a Season and a Lifetime


Someone posted this on their blog and although I have read it many times before.. this time the words really sunk in. It actually felt comforting to me ...somehow! So I thought I would pass it on. What do you think?

People come into your life for a REASON...it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.


They may seem like a Godsend, and they are!


They are there for the reason you need them to be, then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.


Sometimes they walk away.


Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.


What we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered.


And now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON... it's because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.


They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.


Believe it! It is real.


But, only for a season.

LIFETIME
relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.


Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.


It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

~AUTHOR UNKNOWN~

18 comments:

The Wildwood said...

I have read that before and I like it. It makes you realize not all things are meant to be permanent.

Anonymous said...

It's a good one that's for sure. Change is good for the soul whether we like it or not we have to keep moving forward;)

dickiebo said...

Very profound! I shall now spend the next umpteen minutes, digesting it!

Pony Girl said...

That is so nice, and so true!! I hope you had a great weekend!!

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Nancy said...

Exactly.